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7 back to school tips to make it a breeze for your child

Getting back into the school routine for both parents and children after the holidays is really tough, the usual negative associations, emotional resistance, whines and sudden tummy aches or other ills appear. We’ve got a few back to school tips to ease anxiety in kids. We all want to try and help make things just that little bit easier for everyone.

We've got some great back to school tips for you and the kids to make it so much easier for everyone. #backtoschool #kids #school #learning #education #parenting

This new term shake it up a little to enjoy the process and change the way your child thinks about School.

Here are some top tips to help your child feel more confident, new term ready and looking forward to going back to School:


Like an athlete, getting ready BEFORE the event is essential. The first of our back to school tips is to do this together. Getting the kids involved helps them feel part of the process and doing it with them reassures them. Uniform, bag, pencil case, etc.

Action: Make a checklist together and suggest they get creative and colour it in or make it look nice. The better they feel about these simple things, the easier the back to School process will be.

Behaviour Creates Behaviour

Either negative or positive, attitudes and actions are easily transferred, take a check of your own and inoculate yourself from any negative to avoid the angst merry-go-round to begin.

Action: Make things fun. Clearing up from the holidays, going out to the shops, last minute homework or projects, can all be made into fun activities with very little imagination and a big smile.

We've got some great back to school tips for you and the kids to make it so much easier for everyone. #backtoschool #kids #school #learning #education #parenting

The “What If” Monster

Your child’s worries may seem minor or not real, but they are to them and if not dealt with can turn into bigger anxieties and fears. If they keep feeding the pesky ‘what if monster’ it’ll surely grow bigger, capture those early, talk through them and then focus their mind onto happy, positive thoughts.
Action: Create Holiday Memories. Make a list of 3-5 things they enjoyed about the holidays, print photos so they can make a collage or write little memory notes and quotes they can take with them each day to School to remind them when the worries try to creep in.


A lot of communication is sub-conscious, the inner voice in our heads that is often negative, unhelpful and detrimental to our mental well-being, this includes kids too. Unfortunately, we’re programmed to think negatively first, the good news is you’re only one decision away from changing that and helping your child too…
Action: For the next 24 hours focus on how you communicate (internal and external) and become aware of any negative language (I can’t, I’ll never, I’m…). Each time you become aware of the negative, change it to a positive (I’ll keep trying, when I get this I’ll…). Now take your awareness to your child’s communication and each time you hear a negative or detrimental communication, guide them to swap the negative for the positive.

We've got some great back to school tips for you and the kids to make it so much easier for everyone. #backtoschool #kids #school #learning #education #parenting

Get Moving

After sleeping our mind and body need motion, which creates positive emotion. Other than the normal rushing around in the crazy panic of the School morning, take a few moments to move, stretch and really wake up.
Action: For younger children… they stand up and stretch as tall as they can like a Giraffe. For teens… they choose a few body parts to focus on stretching, like hands to write neatly with, feet ankles and legs to be strong in PE. At any age, walk up and down the stairs a few times, a game in the garden anything to get the body going and mind ready for the day.

Elevate Emotions

Many households across the country have some kind of news on in the morning, what a start to the day to consume all that negative doom and gloom. Or maybe they’re online gaming, filling their mind with the wrong things for the start of the day.
Action: Turn off the negative and play uplifting, mood enhancing music. For younger children this could be a soundtrack from a film like the Greatest Showman or Mary Poppins. For teens some like pop music, Ariana Grande, Ed Sheeran, Dua Lipa. Create a School morning playlist and you’ll all be starting the day with a smile and spring in your step.

We've got some great back to school tips for you and the kids to make it so much easier for everyone. #backtoschool #kids #school #learning #education #parenting

Mood Food

Break-fast, the most important meal of the day for feeding the mind and body. Protein is one of the essential elements missing from most children’s breakfast these days, instead they’re filled with sugar (too much makes them hyper) and carbohydrates (and too much of this makes them lethargic), not good for a productive and mood balancing day at School!
Action: Plan in advance to help with the breakfast rush and avoid grapping on the go. Yoghurt and mixed fruit, banana. Yoghurt on wholegrain cereal, eggs and toast, porridge made with a mixture of full fat milk and water. Nuts, seeds (if not allergic) and raisins sprinkled on cereal or yoghurt are all great options for increasing the brain-feeding protein for a balanced start to the day.

These back to school tips should help you to have a little less stressful a week with the kids. We do have other tools and articles on the site to help with confidence, do check them out:

For more great back to school ideas, do check out these resources from my fellow kid bloggers too:

Here is too a good start of school for all! If you are already back; pin this one for later.

Thanks for stopping by, and good luck.


Beckie is a mum to three kids, and works in the Cambridge area as a coach. Feel free to get in contact for a no obligation discussion.

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Becca Talbot

Saturday 19th of January 2019

I am not a parent, but I have a lot of friends who are . I will forward this post over to them as I think it might help them :) x

Shannon Gurnee

Sunday 13th of January 2019

These are definitely some great ideas for making back to school easier! Thanks for sharing these ideas.

Yeah Lifestyle

Sunday 13th of January 2019

Thanks for the share, I will be using these tips for half term as it was a complete struggle getting out kids back to school after the Christmas holidays


Sunday 13th of January 2019

This is great, definitely a good idea to try and make things fun. My little ones haven't started school yet but it won't be long!

Tiffany La Forge-Grau

Sunday 13th of January 2019

These tips will go a long way for some folks. It was a fun part of my life dropping them off at school!

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