Welcome to this week’s Google Hangout where today we are talking about looking after children when you are on your own and tips for solo parenting. Being on your own doesn’t just mean life as a single parent but also covers other parents that are away or there is one person who works later than the other.
As usual I am joined by Beckie Whitehouse of Be Confident Coaching and we discuss areas surrounding:
- finding time for yourself
- practicalities of the influence of the opposite sex
- managing decision making when you are on your own
- creating or keeping routines
If you have 5 minutes (5 minutes and 31 seconds to be exact) then why not make yourself a cuppa and take a little break with our short video. If you don’t then there will be a quick recap below!
Finding time for yourself
It’s quite difficult to find time for yourself when you find yourself looking for tips solo parenting! Remember, you are not alone in this. You can speak to other parents, family members, or anyone in your community to try and come up with a way to help each other out.
Practicalities of the influence of the opposite sex
The importance of someone else of the opposite gender in the child’s life is paramount. Ensure that you can have a good role model for your child. It could be an uncle, aunt, family member, or friend. Either way, it’s important that your child doesn’t feel isolated from having that role model of the same gender.
Creating and Keeping Routines
Whether you are struggling or not, routines are extremely helpful to keep life in order! Having set routines lets your kids know what to expect and gives a semblance of normalcy. It also does you a load of good and makes your life easier!
Are you on your own with the children either all of the time or what feels like the majority of the time? How do you handle it? Please do leave your comments in the section below or join the conversation on the KiddyCharts Twitter page!
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Helen
Helen Neale
Helen is a mum to two, social media consultant, website editor and a qualified counsellor with experience of working with both children and adults.She is a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapists, with her own private practise. She also freelances with her local Mind organisation.Since giving up being a business analyst when juggling travel, work and kids proved too complicated, she founded KiddyCharts so she could be with her kids, use those grey cells at the same time, and supplement her counselling income.KiddyCharts has reach of over 680k across socials and the site. The site works with big family brands to help promote their services, as well as offering free resources to parents of kids under 10. She is a specialist counsellor for neurodivergent individuals and brings this expertise to her resources and the site. She is also an ADHDer herself.KiddyCharts gives 51%+ profits to charities, focused on supporting mental health and a community in TanzaniaHelen has also worked as a digital marketing consultant (IDM qualified) with various organisations, including Channel Mum, Truprint, Talk to Mums, and Micro Scooters. She loves to be creative in the brand campaigns she works on.Get in touch TODAY!